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Its used to display a completely different point, but it reminded me of it. You're too right about the conversation being spun to "But I'm NOT A RACIST / HOW DARE YOU." Thing is they're ALWAYS going to come at it from that point of view, because being called a racist has become more taboo than actually being one. Please reply back as I'm create and where you got this from or theme .
When someone fires an arrow into you, you don't try and find out who fired the arrow and what they are all about.concentrate on getting the arrow out. Jay, You're not speaking wrong, but it feels like you're speaking idealistically.
Let's just say this re-affirms my hatred of being the only black person white people know. Holding people accountable for their words and actions does seem to be the appropriate approach. A case in point: A neighbor yelled to a brother driving too fast through our block..."you effing n" in front of our son and his son!! Hubbie had to go have that accountability chat and had him apologize to our son. I'm to start my own blog but I'm having a time between Blog Engine/Wordpress/B2evolution and Drupal.
The difficulty is for those that are holding the culprit to an accountability for said words or actions must maintain constant focus and verbal vigilance in order for it not to become about 'what they are'. But I know from experience that you can't allow your anger or emotional feelings that may come out to derail 'what they did' to become 'what they are'. Mind you we had just the day before, complimented him and his wife for being our 'saving grace' on the block! Of course the conversation went several times to his black friends and how much he is not a racist, but Chris brought it back each time to WHAT HE SAID!! Keep up the works guys I've you guys to blogroll.| ! The reason I ask is because your seems different then most blogs and I'm looking for something .
Difficult, but we all need to enhance our control and focus when these issues do arise. Yes indeed accountability is what it has to be about. This is fantastic, and I think it will be great for a discussion in my class. Someone in my group shared this with us so I came to .
It's the only way to go past the fact of racism to the healing process. I feel like this is a step in the direction of focusing less on the individual (where we get into the whole identity thing, which is problematic because while people can be agents of racism or even identify as racist, racism itself resides in society) while at the same time holding people accountable, as you said, for the actions and their real effect on real people and real life.
i dont like some white boy telling me how i should be having conversations about race, especially since you're convienently talking about it in a way that excuses you from being implicated as a racist.
Either you're lucky and you get a person who's willing to listen, or you're unlucky. This is mandatory watching for everyone to understand as you said to have a STRATEGY to approach the am I a racist conversation. I'm not sure if this is a issue or something to do with compatibility but I I'd post to let you know.
As soon as anyone says to me, "I am not a racist," please don't say that even if you are not.
Many people don't take the time to really consider how powerful words can be. i'm sorry, but in a racist society where certain people are awarded white privilege, ALL white people are racist.
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